Control, Crazy and about Craziness
Paul from Providence, Rhode Island found an interesting article about Budapest and shared with me over the Facebook yesterday.
I find the author of that article has quite an interesting way of describing Budapest. He introduced the sights to travel with a deep sense of historical references. So I guess for those who wants to sink into the deepness of the changes during those historical years for Budapest, can find back the glorious as well as retro spots to see when they are truly here.
As I continue to read further in the author's blog. He was introducing his latest book which is very exciting to me, just by reading the sypnosis. In his writing, he asked some good questions:
Can you relax if you're not in control?
What will happen if we learn to be really honest with the people in our lives?
And how can an anxious guy learn to loosen up a little and let his hair down?
Nick Thorpe explores these and other predicaments in his writings. It is not like he will write these kind of topics in an intense manner. And these days, Zsolt and I began to appreciate more of such styles which has a certain level of humility.
Gentle humour is certainly a must! Humour has always been a style of writing I personally like and appreciate.
I was trying to explore in answering the questions he asked."Can you relax if you're not in control?" For me, I think perhaps no one living in this busy context could. If you are living in the countryside, perhaps you will learn day by day how to relax. In a city, it's almost impossible.
What will happen if we learn to be really honest with the people in our lives? I think some people will become crazier and the living community will be more stressful than not. Not everybody can take honesty very well. Even though I would think most people would like honest people.
For me, I personally prefer honest people. I hate liars or people who are always blackmailing. It is a psychological problem in my opinion.
And how can an anxious guy learn to loosen up a little and let his hair down? There are many ways and it is all about balancing and moderation. The first is to focus on the correct things that are meant to be yours. Mind your own business. Thinking the worst-case out of situations and scenarios might not help. Not just that it would not keep bad things from happening, it keeps you from enjoying the good things you have in the present.
The first thing to do is tackle your personal need for certainty and your own search for IMMEDIATE answers. For anything, for your life.
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